Are the things that happen to you related?

Everything is determined by your actions, values or beliefs which ultimately determine your choices.

What does the underlying pattern of your life look like? What keeps popping up? Is there a flow of learning? Can you connect the dots?

If you ask for help, listen to your higher self, intuition or soul: you will be making the right decisions for you and only you, perhaps.

Leave your ego at the door, as they say and check in with the stuff your best self is made of.