I am responsible for how others treat me because even when it is uncomfortable, I am able to say, “No.” and “Yes” when I deserve something. I used to be a peacemaker and just created anxiety and chaos for myself and others. The new me TRIES to ask herself, “Is this my business?” 99% of the time, it isn’t.

When we act confidently, we can support others without doing whatever it is, for them.

Photo taken in Berkeley, CA